Q: So, this “mistress” and I have been talking for a while. And she requested $160 for us to meet up. I sent it, and never heard from her in 2 weeks. Should I try to file a police report? Or will it backfire on me? (Clairton, PA) A: I would let this one go. She is a scam artist, a flim-flam woman, con-woman, grifter, cheater, con-artist. hustler, crook, swindler, bilker, bunco artist, clip artist, wise-girl, fleezer, clipper, fleecer, etc. You get the idea. Even if you find her so the police can arrest her, you run the risk of being charged for solicitation or conspiracy.

A: I would let this one go. She is a scam artist, a flim-flam woman, con-woman, grifter, cheater, con-artist. hustler, crook, swindler, bilker, bunco artist, clip artist, wise-girl, fleezer, clipper, fleecer, etc. You get the idea. Even if you find her so the police can arrest her, you run the risk of being charged for solicitation or conspiracy.