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A friend was cited for urinating in the woods at a concert

Q: Our friend couldn’t hold it anymore. No bathrooms were available anywhere He hid in the woods far from anyone. He was not intoxicated and was respectful but was cited. Should he plead not guilty, no contest or ask for ARD? What should they do when they go to the magistrate’s office? (Pittsburgh, PA)

A: Take a toothbrush and pray for mercy. No, just kidding. Advise him to plead not guilty. It is a summary offense but will stay on their record for five years if they are found guilty. I wouldn’t rely on the District Justice dismissing or the police officer withdrawing the citation, although they may. Tell them to hire an attorney if possible, they will have a better chance.

Can I take her to court for transferring his assets with a POA?

Can I take her to court for transferring his assets with a POA?

Q: My husband updated his Will recently but failed to update his General Durable POA. I don’t know if he did it on purpose or simply forgot. A couple of days before he passed away his daughter took out $100K in stocks that were supposed to go to me after he passed. My question is, can she prove she acted on his best interest? She told me he asked her to take care of his affairs and that is what she was doing. However, as far as I know there were no witnesses when this conversation took place. Can I take her to Court and win on the grounds of the updated Will and how is her taking his money in his best interest? (Donegal, PA)

A:  More information is needed but based on what you say, she could have exceeded the scope of authority granted to her through the POA. Under the recent enactments to the PA Power of Attorney statues, the POA must specifically grant someone authority to make a gift to themselves for her to do what you say she did. You need to speak with a local attorney versed in the most recent POA statute and have him or her look at the POA document. I just spent almost three years litigating a similar alleged abuse of POA powers. I would act now before she liquidates the funds. If the attorney feels you have an issue he will want to get a court order to freeze the funds pending his investigation. Additionally, under the law in most states, she would be barred from testifying to the conversation with him under the PA Dead Man’s Act because she would financially benefit from a statement made by a dead person. You may also have an issue regarding your statutory right to elect against the will, if you have consequently been disinherited by her conversion of his asset.

Mom and I are on the lease. What if she dies?

Q: I take care of my elderly mother and we are both on the lease and both contribute to the rent. If she were to die I wouldn’t be able to afford the rent by myself. If a co-leaser dies, is the other person responsible for paying the rent on the remainder of the lease or is there an option to break it? (Pittsburgh, PA)

A: The answer should be contained in the lease which likely contains joint and several language. Generally, each person on the lease is independently liable for the entire lease amount if the other tenant fails to pay. If your mother’s health is precarious, you may want to reach out to the landlord and inform him of your situation.

How can a judge grant a 10-year-old the right when to see mom?

Q: My son has been given total control for the choice of to see me on my visitations or not, with coached visitation. He has been brainwashed for the past 10 years of his life and now that the grandparents have got total control of him. It is worse than before. (Pittsburgh, PA)

A: The family courts usually take the view that a child can make their own decisions at age 14. Each case is different. I have seen this happen. If a 10-year old child cannot be forced to see a parent, the court will usually not force visitation.

How I could find out if anyone has POA over my disabled nephew?

Q: My sister had my nephew living with her and she was caring for him but then she sent him to with his dad (my brother) to care for him. He gets his social security for him now but we need to find out if my sister has power of attorney over him because my brother just found out that his illness has gotten worse and they are recommending a nursing home. My brother doesn’t want to go he wants to take care of himself, so we need to find out if she has power of attorney or not. (Johnstown, PA)

A: If your brother is competent it matters not if someone has a POA over him. He can do as he pleases and does not need to be directed by the Agent on the POA. As far as finding out if he signed a POA to someone, POA documents are not filed or registered anywhere so there is no place to look them up. You will have to ask around and do a little investigating. Why don’t you just ask her?

Q: Can I take her to court for transferring his assets with a POA?

Q: My husband updated his Will recently but failed to update his General Durable POA. I don’t know if he did it on purpose or simply forgot. A couple of days before he passed away his daughter took out $100K in stocks that were supposed to go to me after he passed. My question is, can she prove she acted on his best interest? She told me he asked her to take care of his affairs and that is what she was doing. However, as far as I know there were no witnesses when this conversation took place. Can I take her to Court and win on the grounds of the updated Will and how is her taking his money in his best interest? (Donegal, PA)

A:  More information is needed but based on what you say, she could have exceeded the scope of authority granted to her through the POA. Under the recent enactments to the PA Power of Attorney statues, the POA must specifically grant someone authority to make a gift to themselves for her to do what you say she did. You need to speak with a local attorney versed in the most recent POA statute and have him or her look at the POA document. I just spent almost three years litigating a similar alleged abuse of POA powers. I would act now before she liquidates the funds. If the attorney feels you have an issue he will want to get a court order to freeze the funds pending his investigation. Additionally, under the law in most states, she would be barred from testifying to the conversation with him under the PA Dead Man’s Act because she would financially benefit from a statement made by a dead person.

What should I do about being accused of theft at work?

Q: My manager accused me of stealing $96 from a server and showed me the video. It doesn’t show me taking any money. She told me to empty my pockets and there was nothing in my pockets besides $50 from payday on Thursday. She is bi-polar and an alcoholic. (Robinson Twp., PA)

A: If you are telling the truth I would fight this and ask to speak to the owner or anyone above the manager. However, PA is an at will employment state and you can therefore be fired for any reason at all unless the reason is based on a protected class such as race, gender, sexual preference, age, disability, etc. You may want to speak with an employment discrimination lawyer.

Is there ANY chance my in-laws could sue us?

Q: My husband’s parents paid for his last two years of college out of pocket when their college savings fund ran out. Three years later, while we were planning our wedding, they claimed he had verbally agreed to start paying them back once he was married and settled. Out of a sense of honor and duty, we’ve been sending them $100 a month in the three and one-half years since then, mostly to pay them back for his cellphone bill, car insurance, and health insurance costs they incurred on his behalf after he’d gotten a full-time job but while he was still on their plans (he was unaware of this agreement, as well, until they wrote up a “bill” that they mailed to him). However, they’ve asked two or three times now for more than $100 a month. My husband refuses but is terrified of being sued. There is absolutely no signed document saying he agreed to pay them back. But assuming they kept all other pertinent documents (college bills, etc.), is there even the smallest, remotest chance they could sue? I believe the total was around $90,000, but they keep lowering it to make it seem more agreeable. They absolutely do not need the money; his father recently retired from a six-figure salary. (Pittsburgh, PA)

A:  If they pursue 90K they cannot file in Civil Arbitration and therefore would have to sue in General Docket, Civil Division. They probably do not have the skill to file a complaint on their own in the General Docket of Allegheny County. They would need an attorney. Most attorneys would decline such a suit. However, there are attorneys that would take the case if they are paid good money, non-refundable, up front. If they sue for 50K and under in Civil Arbitration, they may be able to cobble together a form complaint on their own without an attorney if they cannot find an attorney interested. In either General Docket or Civil Arbitration, the case is not good unless they have an agreement in writing or good corroborating witnesses that state your husband agreed to pay back his college tuition. I had a similar case. The parents were bitter and angry at their adopted daughter for some reason and when she left the home to go out on her own, sued her. They found a young lawyer to file an Arbitration complaint for money up front. Nothing was in writing and there was no firm verbal agreement to repay anything. The Arbitration panel was not impressed and issued an award for the defendant. I wouldn’t lose sleep over a potential lawsuit from them.

Can I be evicted from heir’s property if I am an heir and have paid the taxes for 14 years?

Q: My 83 and 91-year-old aunts are trying to sell the land. Neither one has ever paid taxes on this property nor have they lived here since the 50’s. I inherited the mobile home on the property after caring for my 76-year-old dad who died in 07 I moved to care for him after my mother died in 04 when I became an heir. I am 66 years old, never delinquent on taxes for property or my inherited mortgage for this land. I paid taxes, my mother paid them before, my grandmother paid them since the ’50’s. I am a veteran and a retired CPS worker and suffer from PTSD and anxiety. Can my aunts evict me just because they are older heirs? On my retirement income I can’t afford to move, and my mobile home is bricked in. Thank you for any advice that you can give me. (Lucerne Mines, PA)

A: There is not enough information for me to answer this. I suggest you gather the deeds, wills and any other documents you can and see a lawyer. It will likely come down to who at this time owns the property. If your aunts are the only heirs, they own it and I don’t understand why you had been paying property tax on it. If you are an heir along with your aunts, you have options. In that case, the three of you will need to reach an agreement. If they want their money, you may be forced to buy them out. If they don’t want their money out of the land, perhaps they will agree to execute a new deed which has your share pass to their heirs after their death and give you a life estate to live on the property. If they are agreeable to letting you live there, and do not want money, you have some options.

I am the borrower on a vehicle loan but not the owner

Q: I am the borrower of a $21,000 Jeep loan. My ex-boyfriend passed away and he is the owner-he is on the title. Where does this leave me and how can I get paid back??  Am I able to trade in his vehicle if his mother or wife sign off on it? (Pittsburgh, PA)

A: If he is on the certificate of title to the Jeep, and you are on the bank loan, the Jeep is owned by his estate and will pass to the heirs in his will, or if no will, to his intestate heirs. It is not a good situation to be contractually bound to pay for something that you do not own. I would need to know what the facts were that led this arrangement-his bad credit and he was the principle driver? If you were the one paying for this for his benefit, hopefully the mother and wife will be agreeable and sign it over to you. If not, and they want to liquidate the vehicle, you may be able to file a claim against his estate if one is filed. I suggest a consultation with an attorney with whom you can share all the missing facts and documents.